Comments on: The Wedding Bed, Christian Liberty and Pornography. http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/ "But as it is, Christ has obtained a ministry that is as much more excellent than the old as the covenant he mediates is better, since it is enacted on better promises." Hebrews 8:6 Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:41:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: Crazedcelticvikingchristianmanmogwai http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/#comment-4178 Crazedcelticvikingchristianmanmogwai Tue, 04 Nov 2008 18:12:55 +0000 http://blackandreformedministries.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-4178 PORN SHOULD DIEEEEEEEEEE PORN SHOULD DIEEEEEEEEEE

]]> By: Zein http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/#comment-2300 Zein Tue, 19 Aug 2008 08:06:46 +0000 http://blackandreformedministries.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-2300 Dear Sirs, I was going through some information regrading what you say about your profets (Noah,...). As muslims we believe that they are sinless - that is they do not committ sins like we do. For example, just think of it - is it possible as a profet to do bad things like drinking and so on. That is not possible, since GOD send us the profets like Jesus, Abraham, NOah, Moisis, Mohammad, and others for preaching people so that they leave bad habits and praise GOD (Lord) so that they turned to be on the right path. Otherwise, if profets turned to be like human beings, nobody would have followed before since for you or myself to change or to improve we need to follow somebody whi can be an idle and not one of us. So, Beleive all prophets were sinless, and they cannot do bad things. Think again in deep and judge. Regards, Your brother Zein (Muslim). Dear Sirs,
I was going through some information regrading what you say about your profets (Noah,…). As muslims we believe that they are sinless - that is they do not committ sins like we do. For example, just think of it - is it possible as a profet to do bad things like drinking and so on. That is not possible, since GOD send us the profets like Jesus, Abraham, NOah, Moisis, Mohammad, and others for preaching people so that they leave bad habits and praise GOD (Lord) so that they turned to be on the right path. Otherwise, if profets turned to be like human beings, nobody would have followed before since for you or myself to change or to improve we need to follow somebody whi can be an idle and not one of us. So, Beleive all prophets were sinless, and they cannot do bad things.
Think again in deep and judge.
Regards,
Your brother Zein (Muslim).

]]> By: Pastor Richard Muwanguzi http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/#comment-1909 Pastor Richard Muwanguzi Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:54:48 +0000 http://blackandreformedministries.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-1909 Hi Friends, This is Pastor Richard Muwanguzi from Iganga - Uganda, Pastoring miracle center church. I would like to have relationship with you so that your ministry may be a blessing to our church and the people of Uganda. Hoping to hear from you soon. Yours faithfully Pastor Richard Muwanguzi. Hi Friends,
This is Pastor Richard Muwanguzi from Iganga - Uganda, Pastoring miracle center church.

I would like to have relationship with you so that your ministry may be a blessing to our church and the people of Uganda.

Hoping to hear from you soon.

Yours faithfully

Pastor Richard Muwanguzi.

]]> By: Bro. Lawrence D. http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/#comment-1316 Bro. Lawrence D. Sun, 22 Jun 2008 13:38:45 +0000 http://blackandreformedministries.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-1316 Brother Jacob, Also please brother, check into the medical ramifications. It can be quite injurious to your wife physically in the long run. You may have to search thoroughly as this information has been shunned in the medical field in order to be PC to the gay community. Just a thought. Brother Jacob,

Also please brother, check into the medical ramifications. It can be quite injurious to your wife physically in the long run. You may have to search thoroughly as this information has been shunned in the medical field in order to be PC to the gay community. Just a thought.

]]> By: lionelwoods7 http://blackandreformedministries.com/2008/02/18/the-wedding-bed-christian-liberty-and-pornography/#comment-1314 lionelwoods7 Sat, 21 Jun 2008 17:03:05 +0000 http://blackandreformedministries.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-1314 Hey Jacob, Thanks for asking brother and allowing me to answer. I will also email you this answer. There is absolutely nothing in scripture preventing anal sex between married couples. It is a matter of conscience. Sodomy refers to moral depravity and homosexuality but is never ever used in the description between a husband and a wife. So let me say this very candidly: 1. You can perform sex in any position you guys feel is reasonable. 2. Couples are free to use anything in the bed (sex toys, food, mouth, hands kitchen utensils and the like) there is nothing in the scripture that prevents you from expressing yourself in anyway you feel reasonable. 3. The only thing that I know would be prevented is the use of other people. I personally include pornography but there are some Christians who make a case for this and I can't say no 100% (that is why I posted this) but as a Christian I think this would do harm and not good, once again this may be an issue of liberty but I believe it to be extremely dangerous. 4. The last thing to keep in mind is mutuality. If you or your spouse are uncofortamble with this then it is something to discuss and then come to a consensus that being a desire to serve one another sexually. I belive the husband is to take the loss in this situation. If the wife is uncomfortable with something (this is what I have seen in my experience) then respect her boundaries and pray that God would change her heart but never try to coerce her or make her feel uncomfortable in any way. This would be out of line with Philippians 2 and the mind of Christ. We are to look out for the interst of others and we should die trying to serve one another the most. With that said if your wife is game tell her she has liberty, but you ensure that you are loving patient and understanding. God tells us to "live with our wives as the weaker vessel" this isn't weak in strength but delicate. She is like a precious Mona Lisa and we should handle them with great care and gentleness even in the bedroom. Hope this helps. BTW you said "my wife is a Christian" what about you friend? Hey Jacob,

Thanks for asking brother and allowing me to answer. I will also email you this answer. There is absolutely nothing in scripture preventing anal sex between married couples. It is a matter of conscience. Sodomy refers to moral depravity and homosexuality but is never ever used in the description between a husband and a wife. So let me say this very candidly:

1. You can perform sex in any position you guys feel is reasonable.

2. Couples are free to use anything in the bed (sex toys, food, mouth, hands kitchen utensils and the like) there is nothing in the scripture that prevents you from expressing yourself in anyway you feel reasonable.

3. The only thing that I know would be prevented is the use of other people. I personally include pornography but there are some Christians who make a case for this and I can’t say no 100% (that is why I posted this) but as a Christian I think this would do harm and not good, once again this may be an issue of liberty but I believe it to be extremely dangerous.

4. The last thing to keep in mind is mutuality. If you or your spouse are uncofortamble with this then it is something to discuss and then come to a consensus that being a desire to serve one another sexually. I belive the husband is to take the loss in this situation. If the wife is uncomfortable with something (this is what I have seen in my experience) then respect her boundaries and pray that God would change her heart but never try to coerce her or make her feel uncomfortable in any way. This would be out of line with Philippians 2 and the mind of Christ. We are to look out for the interst of others and we should die trying to serve one another the most.

With that said if your wife is game tell her she has liberty, but you ensure that you are loving patient and understanding. God tells us to “live with our wives as the weaker vessel” this isn’t weak in strength but delicate. She is like a precious Mona Lisa and we should handle them with great care and gentleness even in the bedroom.

Hope this helps. BTW you said “my wife is a Christian” what about you friend?

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